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Inspiring Women at home and around the world

Orchids in full bloom
Enigmatic orchids

Note: This is the second installment in a feature series about Inspiring Women. It is dedicated to all women who are trying to make a difference and better other people’s lives, as well as their own.  In putting together this feature series, I was inspired by several moments in life that in particular stand out.

No.1  A dedication of a Relax, mind, body & soul book by Barbara Heller from my son Jake: “I dedicate this to my inspiring and motivational mother.” Kuba

No. 2  While on a story prior to Mother’s Day, I dropped in at Ace Bernard Hardware to talk about the prizes with owner Charlie Bernard. We talked also about the Lowell Area Chamber and its director Liz Baker.

“You know what I like about Liz, she keeps re-inventing herself,” Bernard said.

No. 3 Again on a story prior to the International Women’s Day I talked to Sow Hope president Mary Dailey Brown.

“If you want to make a difference in this world, seriously consider helping impoverished women. Helping women is the key to unlocking poverty.”

No. 4  At a parents teacher conference at Cherry Creek Elementary in Lowell in mid 1990s: “Mrs. Pala, we do not give up,” teacher Karen Latva said.

Lowell city clerk battled cancer with positive attitude

Name: Betty Renfro Morlock

Position: city clerk

Residence: Lowell Township

Family: husband Sam, daughter Jamie and four grandsons

Hobbies and interests: wrestling, soccer, football and camping

Betty’s story

By Emma Palova

Lowell, MI- “I’ve had a few bumps in my life.”

Now, that’s Betty Morlock’s way of looking at life’s blocks, setbacks or just pure tragedies.

Betty Renfro Morlock
Lowell city clerk Betty Morlock

As the Lowell city clerk since 1988, Morlock has been through highs and lows, mostly in her personal life. She is also a highly visible and accessible person, and that’s not just during the elections.

Two major tragedies early on have pulled the family together. Adopted grandson Tyler Morlock, 4, was diagnosed with cancer in January of 2000. That same year on April 28th, son Steven was killed in an accident on a quad.

“I have that silver lining,” she said. “I am a people person. I love my residents and my community.”

Always vibrant, equipped with enormous energy, Morlock has navigated the city politics well. Twice, she was the president of the Rotary, and she traveled to the Dominican Republic, as part of a program to ship ambulances to the country.

Morlock has enjoyed a successful career, by the side of only two city managers, current Mark Howe and past Dave Pasquale, until the biggest challenge of her life hit hard.

While visiting her sick mother-in-law in Reed City on Dec. 29, 2013, Morlock started feeling increasingly sick herself. After throwing up due to an internal bleeding, Morlock was transported to the Reed City Hospital, and then transferred to Blodgett in Grand Rapids. She was diagnosed with cancer in her ulcer.

Morlock lost weight the hard way. To date, Morlock lost 68 pounds. She had to undergo a surgery that took away one third of her stomach much like in the bariatric bypass surgery.

“I had to have both chemo and radiation because I had cancer in the lymph nodes,” she said.

Betty Renfro Morlock
Betty Renfro Morlock

At the time, Morlock posted enthusiastically on facebook:

“Okay here’s the game plan: Twice a week chemo and then radiation.”

It was really more than that, but her optimistic outlook carried her through the serious illness.

“I’ve never been sick,” she said. “I’ve only been to the hospital to have babies.”

She underwent the treatments at the Lemmen Holton Cancer Center under Spectrum Hospital.

But, Morlock was no stranger to cancer.

“Cancer has been prevalent in our family,” she said.

Morlock lost both her parents to cancer, as well as her sister and brother, aunts and uncles.

She bought a wig, and never had to use it.

“My hair just got thinner,” she said. “I don’t think I was as sick as most people are. I got very emotional.”

The whole time during the treatments, Morlock stayed at her daughter Jamie’s house. She had a feeding tube in the stomach and it took 12 hours to feed six cans of Ensure. Morlock started dropping weight rapidly.

“Thanks God, I had a lot of weight to drop,” she joked.

Morlock received enormous support from the family and the community.

“If you’re going to get sick, Lowell is the place to be,” she said.

Morlock had to go a few times to ER because of anxiety attacks. She started feeling better once the feeding tube was out.

Now, all done with the treatments and back at the city hall, Morlock admits that the chemo and the radiation took a lot of strength out of her.

“It slowed me down a bit,” she said in a recent interview. “I continue to focus on being healthy and starting the next phase of my life, which is retirement.”

Currently, she is working on the cemetery program and the upcoming special election on May 5 for the sales tax increase.

What really gets to Morlock is the actual aftermath of the chemotherapy.

“I have something they call a chemo mind,” she said. “I forget things, I can’t focus or concentrate.

“How long can I claim this chemo mind?”

“As long as you want to, you deserve it,” said the doctor.

For Morlock, always surrounded by stacks of documents at the city hall, the inability to focus is really frustrating

And her biggest fear is that the cancer may come back. Morlock didn’t drive at all during the chemo and the radiation due to lack of concentration.

But, there were many positive outcomes from whole treatment process.

“Cancer made me a stronger person, more understanding and it taught me to value my community and family more.”

                                                                                           Betty Morlock

 Cured, driving and working, Morlock says she was very fortunate.

“I had good doctors and support,” she said. “We’re lucky that we have the Medical Mile.”

She did have her pity parties when the feeding tube started acting up.

“I would feel sorry for Betty,” she said.

Throughout her career, Morlock had her role models like election specialist for Kent County, Sue de Steiguer.

“She is phenomenal,” she said. “All our elections run smooth, we’re lucky to have her.”

Morlock is looking to retire mid-year in June/July.

“I will miss the people, the staff and the community,” she said, “but I am looking forward to volunteering with Lizzie at the chamber.”

Morlock can’t wait to get to Tyler Creek Golf Course area to stay at the summer trailer.

And of course her no.1 love after the family is wrestling.

“I am their number one fan,” she said. “We’ve created bond ship through wrestling. The wrestling families are so tight, they made food for us when I was sick. We help each other.”

 

Betty Renfro Morlock- the woman behind the superwoman

 Emma: What makes you feel good about yourself?

Betty: The fact that I kicked it and made the best of it. It may come back but I am ready for it.

Emma: What do you do for yourself?

Betty: I pray daily. I know God has a plan for me, and if it is to survive, I will survive. Don’t ever lose your faith.”

Emma: How do you balance all this out?

Betty: I continue to focus on my health and I want to start journalling.

Emma: Your plans?

Betty: Get well is my number one plan. Before I got sick, I overworked that might have brought it on.

Emma: Your tips and advice to other women?

Betty: It’s very important to talk to someone to get support. I love facebook. Between the family, community and facebook I kept connected.It’s good to be back. Call me if you need to talk to someone at 897-8457.

About the cover photo: Kathleen Mooney’s abstract inspired by Gee’s Bend quilting.

About the orchid logo: Photograph from the group “I love Czech Republic” on facebook.

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Editorial calendar

Editorial/marketing calendar quarterly for Emma Blogs LLC

By Emma Palova

EW Emma’s Writings

In response to Blogging 201 assignment Day 4, add a new feature and /or editorial calendar. I’ve already put this calendar together in January for the first quarter of 2015. I use these as guiding themes which allows me to stay flexible in changing conditions, but focused on the target.

In my quest to find guest writers, writers and sales representatives for Emma Blogs LLC, a portfolio of 11 blogs with the main flagship site EW Emma’s Writings, I find the calendar indispensable.

Editorial calendar
Editorial calendar and daily writing tasks in the notebook format

It is a valuable resource when looking back and analyzing what did the Emma Blogs LLC accomplish as well as strategizing into the next quarter.

Print magazines usually have an annual editorial/advertising calendar with two months lead time. That means if you have a story fit for April publication, you must submit it by the beginning of February, the latest.

With Internet, I find that everything moves faster with unexpected events such as Blogging 201. I am glad I registered for it, but since I haven’t planned for it, it threw me completely off the track. So, from now on I must include blogging/writing events in the calendar. But still, the two months outlook is very helpful.

I use both Simplenote by WordPress and the good old-fashioned wire bound notebook for every writing/blogging day. I write down contacts that I have to make, posts & stories that I have to write, schedule stories with other writers and inevitably design & update tasks.

Editorial calendars
Tempus fugit. Time flies or timing is everything.

 

I always aim to publish twice a week: Tuesday or Wednesday, and then for the weekend on Fridays.

It sounds like a lot of work and routine, but it really is not that bad, if you have figured out for yourself how to work it. Are you a morning or a night writer? How many hours can you put in? What kind of results have you had so far?  No matter what, the key to growing traffic and engagement with our blogs, remains regular and enticing content.

This is the note to my EW team that I sent out in the beginning of January.

Hello, I put together these themes to guide us through March. It is a very busy month, so we need to plan for it now. The Inspiring Women series is leading up to women’s events including International Women’s Day on March 8.

2015 Editorial/Marketing themes

January
Health and wellness

IW Inspiring women series

Women’s Expos previews

Winter recreation and snowbirds

 

February

Blogging 201

Women’s Expo Lansing Feb. 6-Feb. 8, 2015

IW Inspiring women continues

Valentine’s & love

Lenten soups Feb. 18

Winter recreation & snowbirds continues

March

IW Inspiring women series continues

International Women’s Day March 8

Saint Patrick’s Day March 17

Women’s Expo March 13-March 15 in Grand Rapids

Laughfest March 5- March 15

Home and garden expo March 5 through March 8

Lowell expo March 28

Winter/spring recreation and snowbirds continues

About the clock photo: photo of the Prague horloge by “I love Czech Republic” group on facebook.

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It’s about Time: On Editorial Calendars (and Why You Might Need One)

I am working on an editorial calendar that is quarterly. I will share my findings in the next post.

Creative weather

The weather today is absolutely conducive to writing and creativity. Take advantage of it while it lasts. Cuddle up by the fire and let it fuel your creativity.

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The weather forecast calls for writing on this dark February morning.

Pic by AccuWeather.com

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Brand audit

Alright it took me two hours to work on my real “test” site. It’s so new. I just put it in place yesterday based on goal no 1. I wanted to create a blog/website for my company Emma Blogs LLC. So, that was the ideal groundwork for today’s assignment that I tried to fully apply to Emma Blogs LLC. I wanted to give it a website feel so I shuffled around the static About page and the moving posts Home page. Now, I have (static) pages About the firm, About the EW team, the Brands and finally the post (Home) Blog news that moves with each new post. The Radcliffe theme does have a customizer that helps with the shuffling job.
Blogging U.
On the Blog news posts page I introduced the new features on the flagship EW Emma’s Writings blog athttp://emmapalova.com which are IW Inspiring Women and Images of Czech. That way I feel I may have a nice mix of stories and pictures. I am missing a video. I am working on that.

With the Radcliffe theme, the sidebars are all at the bottom. So, I have yet to fill out most widgets that I use on the entire portfolio of rolling blogs suited for stories and advertising.
I find really useful the Gravatar widget, of course the much coveted social icons that I had to consult the happiness engineers many times, as well as the RSS feeds plug-ins. I will install the facebook page plug-in and Instagram, and of course the WordPress meta community.
I have the sharing buttons or publicize at the bottom of each section and each post on Blog News. This was an exercise, that I am grateful for, in design and flipping the blog for the website feel.
I invite you to visit the brand new Emma Blogs LLC at http://emmablogsllc.wordpress.com and I am looking for your feedback.
But, still all this said, “Content is the King.” I have to get back to writing. Stories are waiting for me, and so are the readers. Hopefully I got some hooked on the two new features.
I am looking for collaboration, guest writers, photographers and illustrators.
I hope all this goes great. Sometimes, like early this afternoon, I got so discouraged that I ate two pieces of unsweetened Baker’s Chocolate. I will write about that on my E Health & Wellness.
Looking forward to some input and tomorrow’s assignment. I feel like back in school, with all except for the beer.
I still don’t know if I am supposed to post all this here or where?
Thanks Michelle for pushing me forward
Emma

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Blog news.

 

The Firm

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Emma Blogs LLC is a blog/website design & writing firm whose brands fit your advertising needs and they get your message out. The firm originates in the flagship EW Emma’s Writings Internet journal established in January of 2013 on http://emmapalova.com

After rolling out a portfolio of blogs suited to advertising in the spring of 2014, founder and CEO Emma Palova formalized the company in July of 2014. All the sites are under the umbrella of Emma Blogs LLC.

The firm designs and writes blogs and websites for clients such as CJ Aunt Jarmilka’s Desserts based in Czech Republic, as well as a writing site Edition Emma on http://editionemma.wordpress.com

We partner with affiliates to optimize content and traffic to sites.

Advertise on Emma Blogs, a rolling portfolio of blogs tailored to your needs. We use social media marketing and have the second highest ranking.

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IW Inspiring Women

IW Inspiring Women. A feature series about women making a difference in their communities and around the world.

IW Inspiring Women

Inspiring Women at home and around the world

Orchids in full bloom
Enigmatic orchids

Note: This is the first installment in a feature series about Inspiring Women. It is dedicated to all women who are trying to make a difference and better other people’s lives, as well as their own.  In putting together this feature series, I was inspired by several moments in life that in particular stand out.

No.1  A dedication of a Relax, mind, body & soul book by Barbara Heller from my son Jake: “I dedicate this to my inspiring and motivational mother.” Kuba

No. 2  While on a story prior to Mother’s Day, I dropped in at Ace Bernard Hardware to talk about the prizes with owner Charlie Bernard. We talked also about the Lowell Area Chamber and its director Liz Baker.

“You know what I like about Liz, she keeps re-inventing herself,” Bernard said.

No. 3 Again on a story prior to the International Women’s Day I talked to Sow Hope president Mary Dailey Brown.

“If you want to make a difference in this world, seriously consider helping impoverished women. Helping women is the key to unlocking poverty.”

No. 4  At a parents teacher conference at Cherry Creek Elementary in Lowell in mid 1990s: “Mrs. Pala, we do not give up,” teacher Karen Latva said.

Vestaburg woman leads in trail development

Carolyn Kane chaiperson
Carolyn Kane received an award in Washington DC for trail development in 2011.

Name: Carolyn Kane

Position: chairperson of Friends of Fred Meijer River Valley Trails

Residence: Vestaburg, Michigan

Family: husband Dale, daughters Carol, Kim, Connie, and 14 great grandchildren

Hobbies & Interests: snowmobiling, family

By Emma Palova

EW Emma’s Writings

Vestaburg, MI- Working frantically on a $300,000 grant application from the Natural Resources Trust Fund with an April 1st deadline, Carolyn Kane can get a little stressed out.

Kane’s official title is the chairperson of the Friends of the Fred Meijer River Valley Trails. But her multiple tasks reach far beyond the title, along with the awards for spearheading the development of mid- Michigan trails since 1993.

“I was fortunate enough to retire young,” Kane said. “We planned well and had luck with our investments.”

Kane retired from GTE/Verizon at the age of 52 with an entire space of opportunities ahead of her. As a passionate snowmobiler, Kane was upset when she found out that the Heartland Trail didn’t go anywhere except from Elmdale to three miles outside of Greenville.

“It was a wonderful opportunity to have safe trails,” she said.

At, first, she was elected as secretary of the Friends of Fred Meijer Heartland Trail, and later Kane got involved with the Montcalm Economic Development Alliance.

“I’ve always been interested in recreational corridors and economic development,” she said.

Other than snowmobiling, Kane with husband Dale were avid motorcyclists riding through all but five states.

“Summer after summer we traveled in small groups and we had a wonderful time,” she said.

They also had a fifth wheel and a boat on Burt Lake at Indiana River.

All these were driving forces behind Carolyn’s extensive involvement with West Michigan Greenways Coalition.

“I am a person with a lot of interests,” she said. “I enjoy different things. I’ve never focused on just one thing.”

So, Kane made a natural switch from snowmobiles to trails.

Growing up on a farm near Owosso as the oldest of seven children, Kane learned to be an administrator responsible for her actions.

“I turned into a workaholic,” she said.

Since, Kane learned to take on responsibility early on in life, she also learned to plan for the future.

“When I say I am going to do it,” she said. “I do it. It still boggles my mind that I invite all these managers along the corridor and they show up.”

 As a project coordinator, Kane has no qualms about calling people up whether for a meeting or for money.

One of her biggest achievements in spite of its delay was a trail project around St. John’s.

“We stayed the course, but there also has been a lot of interest in trails,” she said.

One of the biggest challenges was naming the trail from Lowell to Greenville because of the many municipalities involved.

“It took us three years. We had to come up with a compromise,” Kane said. “Greenville finally relented the Flat River in the name and it became the Fred Meijer Flat River Valley Trail.”

Today, Kane has four-drawer file cabinet full of trail stuff. It was donated by the Lowell Area Chamber of Commerce. In spite of numerous setbacks, she is motivated by the passion to get the trail done.

“People are so appreciative of what has transpired,” she said.

Over the years, the inflation has taken its toll on trail projects as well.

In 1994, the 42-mile Heartland trail corridor was purchased for $245,000, as opposed to the 37.5-mile corridor from Ionia to Greenville for $2.3 million.

The 82-mile long trail from Greenville to Owosso with a price tag of $12 million is all but complete except for 26 miles.

However, there are still gaps between different communities that would complete the 7th longest trail in the USA. The 125-mile long Fred Meijer Mid-Michigan Trail Network will ultimately connect Greenville to Owosso going through Michigan heartland and farmlands.

These unfinished gaps have become Kane’s biggest fear. When asked what she is afraid of Kane responded:

“Failing to complete this project!  Just imagine 52 miles from Owosso to Saranac and from Greenville to Alma at 42 miles, a gaping hole from Greenville to Belding which is 2.2 miles, and Belding to Lowell  another BIG gaping hole 14 miles.  My image and/or reputation would be destroyed!  Certainly, I would not be inspiring!”

 Now, that response is typical for hard-driving Kane. Often, she comes into the meetings hauling in binders of trail documents in mid- winter, when others fail to show up. At other time she runs into a deer on her way to an evening meeting 90 miles from home.

Kane also faces chronic complainers with unsubstantiated whining:

“Oh, the trail will bring in crime and trash,” many complained.

“What about the deer on the trails,” others worried.

And then came the biggie: the Federal Lawsuit over the easements of the adjacent owners of the rail trail.

“Michigan has never dealt with something like this,” she said. “Going through the process was fearful. Other states lost the corridor.”

After a long battle, the trail group was able to preserve the corridor and the adjacent land owners were compensated for taking of the property, but they had to have deeds. A handful remains to be resolved.

“It’s amazing what you can do when you say I can,” Kane said. “My husband always says, if there is something you can’t get done, give it to Carolyn.”

Carolyn is amazed at the recognition she received for more than two decades of trail work.

2009 Mid America Trails award for trail work

2011 DNR Partners in conservation award for advancing Rail to Trail work

“I’ve made up my mind, if it’s going to happen,” she said. “It’s going to be up to me. I’ll stay with it until I get it done.”

But, other factors such as health come into play as time goes by.

“I am not going to put my health at risk to get it done, even though I am anxious to complete everything.”

Kane puts in anywhere from 25 to 30 hours a week, and that is without pay.

“How about goals and role models?” I asked.

“As you get older, the long term goals are not as important as they used to be,” Kane said.

“My immediate goal is to get the funding in place and go back to the Belding project,” she said.

Barbara Nelson Jameson with National Parks Service has always been a role model for Kane.

“When I grow up I want to be like Barbara,” Kane said to herself at the first meeting of the Heartland Trail. “She was eloquent in anything she did.”

The other one was Roger Sabine with Kent County Parks.

“He is really someone I can trust,” she said.

Kane is especially proud of being chosen as the National Rail Trail Champion by Rails Trails Conservancy in Washington DC in 2011.

Carolyn Kane, the woman behind the superwoman

 Emma: What makes you feel good about yourself?

Carolyn: Making time for grandchildren and great grandchildren, just doing things with them. They all have snowmobiles. Pulling them around and getting some chocolate.

Emma: What do you do for yourself?

Carolyn: My family has always been number one. I enjoy spending time with them, picking them up from McDonald’s.

Emma: How do juggle work and family?

Carolyn: Balance. There are things that you have to give and take. You have to make decisions. The clean house doesn’t seem as important as 50 years ago.

Emma: Do you prioritize?

Carolyn: I manage to set priorities, but they change, when grand babies come. Life changes you get a different perspective and you have fun with it.

Emma: What keeps you going?

Carolyn: I am very happily married. At this stage in life it makes a difference. I am blessed with a wonderful family.

Emma: What is your inspiration?

Carolyn: The Lord wanted me to do this, he has directed me and helps me stay the course. I don’t get to give up. I keep coming back to the target.”

Emma: Tips and advice for other women.

Carolyn: The key is balance and keeping things in perspective.

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Lowell on water is down to earth

Free Association

In response to The Daily Post’s writing prompt:“Free Association.”

Down to earth people are the fabric of Lowell

By Emma Palova

EW Emma’s Writings

Lowell, – I make my home in Lowell, a small town in the Midwest. It lies at the crossroads of two major waterways, the Flat River in the northeast and the Grand River in the southern part.

What I’ve always liked about this hometown is the people who live here. They are down to earth folks who earn their living the hard way. Many of them work two part-time low paying jobs with no benefits.

The median family income is around $40,000.

Downtown Lowell.
Lowell rowing team on the Flat River.

But, what is most fascinating about Lowell are the people who care about each other. They get together to rejoice and celebrate their successes as in the annual Lowell Area Chamber membership gathering that awards the Person of the Year.

They mourn together when a great citizen passes such as recently Ray Zandstra, and many others who have made a difference in the community.

And in order not to forget community giants like Ivan Blough, the people of Lowell establish foundations and scholarships. The one that honors this truly down to earth man is called the Ivan K. Blough Vocational Scholarship.

 

KDL library
The KDL Engelhardt Library in Lowell sits right on the Riverwalk.Being fortunate enough, the town has received bequests from local philanthropists such as Mr. E., that is Harold Englehardt.

In May of 1996, Englehardt’s will set into motion a legacy that  benefited the Lowell area community forever. Known as a low-key, humble man who lived his life simply and without fanfare, Englehardt was a self-made millionaire who chose to give back to the community he loved.

Englehardt gave a $12.7 million bequest to the community which in turn created the Lowell Area Community Fund (LACF) See more at: http://www.grfoundation.org/lowell#sthash.4QQlenYl.dpuf

Another area philanthropist was late Peter Wege who donated money for farm preservation and nature education in the Wittenbach Wege Agriscience Center.

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Wittenbach/Wege Agriscience nature center

The community also fights together; in the fall it is the annual Pink Arrow Pride game that spreads awareness and raises money to fight cancer.

The community honors its veterans, late and alive, in the annual Memorial Day parade.

Lowell Main Street
Main Street before Pink Arrow game.

It stepped up in an uprecendented effort to fight hunger and poverty when local churches created the Flat River Outreach Ministries (FROM) in 1998.

The community collects food for the FROM pantry throughout the year in different food fights like the north side against the south side of the town. Residents bring cans of food to the annual Riverwalk parade in July.

“Can you imagine, all these people bringing cans to the parade,” said former pastor Roger LaWarre of the First Congregational Church of Lowell.

The community loves the arts and it has named the gallery inside Lowell Arts after another philanthropist King Doyle.

It preserves history as local businessman Greg Canfield saved three buildings on the bridge from demolition and turned them into the Main Street Inn,

People of the past, present and the future make up the fabric of this resilient community that is bound together by love and caring.

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